Promise #78: Give ginormous thanks for nothin’

Oct, 12 2011
By Tracey
Hope
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When is the last time you thanked someone for ruining your day? Or letting you down?

You probably don’t even need to think about the answer. I’m 99% sure it’s neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeever. I’m right there with ya.

Funny thing is, we owe these folks our warmest, deepest, most heartfelt gratitude. If it weren’t for their inaction, ineptitude and insincerity we might never know what we’re really made of.

Think about it for a minute.

The person who didn’t come through for you taught you how to get the job done on your own.

The one who lied through her teeth, taught you the importance of truth.

The friend who abandoned you when you needed them most taught you how to be a great friend to someone who’s worth it.

Remember that hottie you didn’t think you could live without? You’re more alive than ever now, aren’t you?

Let’s not forget the ogre of a boss who sucked the wind out of your sails, morning after morning, day after day. S/he gave you the fuel to find a better job.

The puppy who ate the pillow on the couch, pooped on the carpet and chiseled that wood chair leg down to a nub? Yes. Love is forgiving and kind.

Thank the mailman for not delivering the package when (clearly) you were home. Now you know how important it is to deliver what’s expected.

The lazy co-worker who took credit for your efforts? Karma is kind to those who give credit where credit is due.

The guy who always left the seat up? Muchas gracias: it’s much easier to navigate in the dark with a nightlight, anyway.

The nag? Deal with the small stuff and there’s usually nothing left to sweat.

The gossip who got your story all wrong? Words can be used to build bridges or burn them—the choice is always yours.

And the one who walks through life with dark-colored glasses? Thank that one, especially, for reminding you just how much better life is when you live it on the bright side.

Take it to the comments, my friends. What kind of thanks do you owe for nothin’?