Promise # 14: Pay (fill in the blank) forward

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Pay it forward is such a simple concept. It’s hard to imagine why our world isn’t a better place because of it already.

If you’re not familiar with this method of payment take note: when someone tells you to pay it forward they expect you to pass the generosity they give to you on to someone else instead of paying them with moolah for the goods, service or act they provided to you. It’s the ultimate act of random kindness.

The grammarian in me thinks if we replace the ambiguity of “it” we can instantly improve the process by promising to fill in the blank as we pass “it” on. Consider the implications: what if the last time someone made you smile they instructed, “Pay that smile forward?” How about if a stranger filled your head with hope and then said, “Pay that hope forward?” What would you do? Would you feel more compelled to pass “it” along? I know I would.

You’re thinking…how is this promise going to work for me?

Make a list of your top five “it” items and promise to start paying them forward. It’s a win-win…

Here’s what I hope to pay forward by the week’s end-

1. Belly laughs
2. Undivided attention
3. Encouragement
4. Happy and helpful science board assistance (not an emotional high by the stretch of any imagination, but my boys will be very happy if I provide this service without growling and grumbling)
5. Thoughtful advice

How about you…what’s the “it” on your list?